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For those who attended the conference and need some reminders or those who stumbled onto to this site and would like some help, we have a few ways to help you:
  1. We make the slides and notes from the weekend available to you, free of charge.  Click here to get them.
  2. We occasionally add new brief blogs on a topic related to pursuing biblical manhood.  Click here to access the Blog.
  3. The conference teaching sessions are available for purchase - $35 for the entire set.  Click her to purchase them.
Teaching Guidelines

Below are our teaching guidelines based on the "Principles that Guide Our Shepherding at Southwest Wake Christian Assembly" (very briefly stated and imperfectly practiced but sincerely held).  These guidelines reflect the Forging A Head team's heart:
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  1. For both growth and peace in the assembly, the saints (and especially the leadership) must make every effort to emulate our Lord Jesus Christ who was "full of grace and truth" (John 1:14).
  2. Fullness of truth means that we should be willing to teach and discuss all passages of Scripture and all topics related to "life and godliness" to which the Scriptures speak, not avoiding even the most controversial, uncomfortable or self-condemning subjects. We must speak not only of the love of God but also of His holiness and the holiness He desires in His people. This is a joyous holiness because it is convicted (i.e., convinced in one's own heart) by the Spirit, empowered by the Spirit, motivated out of a growing love for Christ, and rooted entirely in Scripture, not straying into a prideful legalism that goes beyond the Word of God.
  3. Fullness of grace means that we should make every effort to deal humbly, charitably, peaceably, patiently, and tenderly with each precious saint for whom Christ died, leading the sheep without demanding of them, feeding the sheep without choking them. Humility, it seems, is the foundational virtue that produces gentle shepherding, just as pride is the fundamental vice that leads to tyranny.
  4. Scripture is our sole and sufficient standard for Christian living and for pleasing Christ. Let your conscience be bound to the Scriptures alone, never to a creed, a confession, a denomination or a man.
  5. The biblical role of the church and the goal of its ministry is to encourage and nurture the saints toward Christlikeness, not to pressure, demand or threaten Christ's lambs. Though we do not withhold any truth of Scripture and its valid implications for belief or behavior, we leave the personal applications to the individual homes under the headship of the husband and the oversight of the Holy Spirit. The only matters that church leadership must be insistent about are immorality, heresy, divisiveness and orderliness of the church meeting.
  6. No saint comes into the assembly as a "blank slate." We all have a history, both positive and negative, which will color our perspective, how we hear truth and how we apply truth. Mature shepherds will take this into account in how they disciple the saints.
  7. No shepherd is perfect in character or ability. So, he can best serve the Lord and His people in a plurality where his weaknesses are balanced by the strengths of his fellow elders AND by the input of other godly saints in the flock.
 

Interested in a Forging A Head Boot Camp?

Believing that God is forging ahead to forge more and more men into godly head's of their homes, we anticipate conducting more Forging A Head Boot Camps.

To learn more about the Forging A Head Boot Camp, click here.

If you are interested in having a boot camp come to your area, please contact us.

Get the Audio CDs of the Forging A Head Boot Camp

You can purchase a set of CDs of the teaching sessions from the boot camp for $35.00. Click here to purchase the CDs.
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